The Lipstick Party

Break ups are probably the most difficult things that we as human being have to endure. There are so many ways that you can have your heart broken but the experience is universal.

The pain is universal. I do not have to narrate all the pitfalls that are included in a break up because I bet everyone has experienced getting dumped.

However, what remains the perpetual issue immediately after a break up is what to do. It’s always like that. You’re broken up, now what? For women, it may include stuffing one’s face with all the ice cream.

Of course, there is booze and the binging but all these things are band-aid solutions. Let’s face it, we would rather get our ex back then frequent bars drinking all alone.

It is not unusual for one to try and get a lover back. That is but natural and not at all pathetic unlike what some cynical, ruined individuals may say. But the thing that you have to understand is that you will be in a very emotional unstable state. You will probably pendulum from hopeful to hopeless plenty of times throughout the day.  Read more...

Splitting from your lover can actually be avoided if one is aware of the signals of a breakup. Although all relationships differ from each other but the symptoms of trouble can be similar.

1) You are being ignored by your partner.

This does not mean that your partner is not talking to you. Loosing interest in the other person and not worrying about how they are or their where abouts, is the point that I am trying to make. It’s almost like two ships that are passing by each other, and so may be now you need to work on your love life.

So stop here and contemplate why is your partner ignoring you? You probably forgot their birthday or some other special event? Are you loving your partner enough these days? Is there a possibility of they feeling neglected? These could be reactions to earlier events also. Although this may be their viewpoint, but you should be understanding enough and make them feel happy for the sake of love.  Read more...